20:20 Interview Dr Dixon on Polygyny

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MONOGAMY SUCKS! Polygamy part 2

I just wonder how all the serial Monogomists out there live an entire lifetime in the misery of jealousy, insecurity, fear, lack and exhaustion without coming to the same conclusion I have come to: Monogamy Sucks! Big Time!!!

I bet a lot of those who think or have been brainwashed to believe that they are Monogamists really deep down, if you allow your spirit to fly free of limitations, guilt, dogma...you are Polygamists.

If you are a woman who spends so much time raising your children using 100% of your abilities, while nurturing your husband and managing your houshold both at 100% capacity, and perhaps even holding down a full or part time job as a Monogamist....and are so exhausted right now, you can hardly stay awake long enough to desire "Rome-ance" or pleasurable sexual elevation with your King, polish your nails, read a book, or make that 6am Yoga class, but you are indeed a Queen......you're in need of a polygamy shot!

Now your King gives 100% of himself to his Nation, serving on this Board of Directors, Appointed that Ambassador, making this speech, hosting that event, producing that program, writing this article, showcasing those scholars, mentoring these students, teaching that class, managing that medium....Master Teacher, you know, Nation Building, doing things Kings do. Truly a Gem. And at the end of the day he may or may not have time for the gym, decent rest, and could use some love, affection and even a massage, hot tea, and salt bath from his Queen to regenerate and rejuvenate, but when he steps in the door, the house is immaculate, his dinner is still warm, the laundry is done and his wardrobe is pressed and laid out, but Queen is knocked the F--k out in the bed. Still beautiful in his eyes, yet showing signs of needing a serious break. She's not able to take care of herself like she used to before the 3 Children arrived, but his Love is Real and promises to help out more....only where will the time come from??...realistically.

You know how it goes....our community leaders have yet to be fully appreciated for all that they do translated into a dollar amount comparable to their commitment and skill level, so paying for help is beyond the financial capacity of this small Empire....or wanna be Empire. Besides, who wants a babysitter, a houskeeper, a tutor or cook on salary (taking resources OUT of the home) that may or may not love and treat your children, home and family like thier own. It's a risk.

Now you being the faithful, unselfish (except when it comes to 'your' man), compassionate and innerstanding Goddess that you are would not dare demand that King resign any of his very important positions, (looking down at your dishpan hands, and unkept nails) with the state of global and national affairs today being as they are, he is needed out there to facilitate this Evolution, after all, that is what Kings do, and you as a Queen would want nothing less, in fact if your plate wasn't so full, you'd like to write a book, and serve on a a Board or two yourself. But you are exhausted and desperately need a break. It's not that your health is failing, that you are lazy, slow and can't keep up, or deficient in any way, you are just one person....and you know what,... it takes an Empire to facilitate the needs of a Nation Builder, his Queen, and their legacy. Hell, you need a massage, bath drawn and some good conversation from adults too.

You have both committed yourselves to the betterment and growth of a World that is truly Free and Fair and Just, NO dependence on the Middle Class American Dream here, both King and Queen have their eyes on the Bigger Prize as depicted by our ancestors...Empires of Rightousness bring an Abundance of Wealth and Prosperity in all areas for many generations to come. Building a better world for our childrens' children. Yes, this is truly a Rightous Monogamous Family.

YOU BOTH NEED YOUR POLYGAMY SHOT!

YO!!!! Everything is NOT lovely. Most likely King is going to walk out the door filled with love for you, but go someplace somewhere where he can get that full recharge of Feminine magic (or at least that is what he THINKS he's getting) that you are too exhausted to give, clean up and be back in bed before you wake so he can go out there an do it all again for YOU! You will be none the wiser, and if he told you..what would you do? If he didn't would you begin to suspect?...feel jealous in addition to your exhaustion? There goes the end of the happy home! Resentment, Anger and divorce usually follow.

If you are not circulating your Chi through the exercise of the lower chakras to stimulate the life force into piercing through your core center (djed) through your Crown, channeling through your partner and into the Ethers, you are not going very far. You will be spinning your wheels and may even bring your plight to a screeching halt because of your inability to fully Master your Life Force Energy. What I have just described is a practice that is vital to Self Mastery and the full Manifestation of your Destiny-Sacred Sex. Without it you will be forever missing a piece to the puzzle that is this 3rd Dimension and you will wallow in this Matrix like a fish out of water with good intentions reaping little results and become a "victim" of someone elses' plan for you, in jail, assasinated in character and/or in life, divorced, angry, alone, and filled with dis-ease. You will become a Martyr instead of an Emperor.

If you are unable to take time out of each and every day to breathe deeply from your diaphram, deeply focus on your intentions and your space in time, be quiet and go within undisturbed, hike into nature and cleanse your lungs in meditation... instead of really manifesting the God or Goddess in you, you will accept the frailties of Human imperfection and sustain as a mere mortal instead of becoming one with your Creator as Immortal realizing your full true power as the Image of God.

So, knowing that this King of Yours is truly a special gift to Humankind, as are you (you're twins), how many seeds would you say are needed to maintain and grow this Empire that the two of you are building? Think that the 3 you have are enough?.....to inherit and run a whole Family Empire? How many strong Men and Women will carry on this immaculate DNA that you both carry. As many as possible. How many are you willing to give from your womb? Haven't our numbers deteriorated enough or is our goal self Genocide?

TWO POLYGAMY SHOTS COMING UP.....MAKE IT 3 OR 4 EVEN!

Still giving 100% of your abilities to all your loved ones, just not 100% of the time. Shared responsibilities in harmony, synergy, rooted in spirituality is what I'm talking here. Ok, we are already clear that I am referring to KINGS AND QUEENS, as we all know these are not just titles issued out as easily as Mr. and Mrs/Miss. If you are not knowing what a true King and Queen entails, then just continue to seek and you shall find what I have found. It will come. You will not know of what I speak unless you have truly experienced a KING IN YOUR LIFE, Queens. If the woman or man I have described in the above story does not describe you or your mate, then this article is not intended for you.

I said all this to say......WHERE ARE MY CO WIVES......I NEED HELLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Lol,..... but seriously tho.

PEACE AND LOVE

I LOVE POLYGAMY!!!! LAALAALALALA-you would too if you knew what I know....

Whew! I don't know why I took so long to express this cause try as I may, I can't understand why this subject is so misunderstood and rejected. I am a woman and the concept or family structure called Polygamy is the most functional loving kind of family unit that anyone can ever experience, one that is so desirous to me...I want nothing less.

The concept of polygamy to me as a woman is like a paradise, an empire...I am a Queen/Goddess/Empress (whatever the title is that describes a woman with BIG vision, BIG love, Big ambition, and the talent and skill to back it up-Poly/Omni is for me. Mono/In-divid(e)-ual-ity NOT for me..too limiting) and it is very becoming of me to say the least. The first response I usually encounter when the subject is brought up, usually by me is one of utter shock by women and men a mixture of confusion and pleasure. You see, I study the elevation of my spiritual Self or the GODDESS in me through the practices of the TREE OF LIFE MEDITATION SYSTEM. One main principle in this process of growing into your spiritual self and recognizing your physical/animal self is controlling your emotions and not allowing them to control you, as this is the essence of evil doing or some call the devil.

Let me back up and not get too deep here, I don't want to lose you before the simplicity of this lifestyle is expressed. We women get into such an uproar about a man being a "dog" or having more than one woman in his life at a time. We turn into the ugliest meanest, most bitter creatures on the planet in a rage of jealousy when our man has the desire to be with more than one woman. Relax, breathe! You see, not all men, but the men that I encounter and Love are usually very powerful inside...it may or may not be manifesting on the outside at the time we meet, but I feel his power and other women do too. So are they wrong, or is he wrong for having this power? No, i think not. And what entitlements do i have to obtain exclusive rights to this power that God gave him? I have wondered in my mind a thousand times if a great and powerful man would be allowed to flourish and grow into his fullness as a man how far could he go? Without the restrictions placed on him by this society could we experience a Man-God in this lifetime, a 100% Reniassance man. Most men that women have told me about that they describe as "dogs" are really not dogs at all. Most are good providers, good fathers, upstanding citizens and even deeply spiritual and/or religious. But let that same man be caught with his pants down with another woman...all his accomplishments and attributes are discredited and his name dragged through the mud in disgrace. I see something very wrong in this, especially when I study ancient history and culture and the greatest of men always had a variety of women at his disposal to enhance his attributes, after all like Prince himself says, his women bring him closer to God.

When we understand the power we have in the act of making love and the life force energy that we generate, exchange, and regenerate between each other, and how to manipulate and preserve it...it is the most empowering tool that God has bestowed upon us. Experiencing Ecstacy is the key to making your dreams come true, and we should do it often. Now being overly consumed with physical stimulation and men wasting their life essence seed is not what I am talking about here. There are prerequisites to this practice that i can only urge you to begin to study in relation to this subject matter. One is that you cannot allow emotions to control your actions: jealousy, envy, selfishness, greed, lust, etc. these will waste your life force energy. A balanced man would handle many women with honesty, control over his emotions and sexual desire, fairness, equality, and great management and human resources skills.

The benefits of this type of family structure are as follows: In this society, two incomes are no longer enough to free ones family from the burdens of financial constraints and stress, in addition in a two income houshold where both parents are away from approx 6am-6pm when the kids get out of school at 3 or 4, where is the supervision and guidance necessary to have well rounded children? I was raised in the Air Force and my mother never worked outside of the home, we never had a babysitter, and I never have feelings of worthlessness, depraivity, despair, hopelessness or get lost in deep seated depression as a result of an underprivledged childhood. I have my innerchild issues and one is I love a big family, and because of my moving around a lot in the airforce, I desire to find a stable home and close friends and family that I never ever have to leave again. Thus my belief in polygamy.

I have seen good girlfriends act like crazed maniacs looking though their man's pockets for numbers, disrespecting his privacy, following him in his car, camping out stalking his front door...OMG, I never ever wanted to be like them, so I would just break up a lot when I suspected dishonesty. And when I analyzed the situation for myself, I found out that the Dishonesty is what bothered me the most. I just want you to trust me enough to be my friend. Tell me about your desires. No, I am not EVERY WOMAN, and don't want to be, that's too much work (I'm a team player). I have tried being the wife, mother, career woman, chef, housekeeper, educator, nurturer, healer, friend...all that is way too much work. How about if you like my man and want to be with him, kewl, but you will have to help wash his clothes, cook, help with his children, and be my friend to help me figure him out at times and devise plans to help him reach his full potential, in turn helping us all to reach our full potential. Yes, we women are all powerful, and yes we can reach our potential without a man...but who wants to? I don't, I want a real family, what does it all mean without one?

Men biologically seem to need less rest, I dated a drug dealer and pimp one time (true story-hey..no judgement) and that man made more money in the least amount of time and took care of not only me and my kids, but his 6-7 ladies in the profession, his mother, his brother who was killed's daughter, his brother who was incarcerated's children..and I was in awe of him! He never seemed tired and needed very little rest. (btw-our relationship changed his profession, he's in Aerospace now making just as much money-Goddessess turn niggas to Gods 4-real) Biologically we women need more rest, we are baby making machines even when there isn't one in the oven our bodies are designed differently. This brings me to the the question that always arises eventually.

Polyandry-having more than one man. I'm not in this as a game of what is sexually fair about trying to keep up with a man's libido. There is no need for Polyandry and personally, I don't have the desire for more than one dick in my life..too much testosterone.

And this "family" that I speak about is more than just about sexual encounters, it's about Empires and longevity and ultimate success to pass on for generations. We as a people of color are behind economically, and I see this as the only way to catch up. One wife can be a homemaker if she chooses (there are those women that enjoy being at home being 100% domestic-don't hate) and she is free to do so if her co-wife is a career woman that can bring home some dough. Gone are the ancient days of a King wanting several wives having to financially "take care" of all of them, that is unrealistic. We pool our resources, credit, skills, etc to establish wealth. How difficult is that. Learn to stop hating on your sistahs and love them for their attributes and the contribution they could bring into your home. So what she has big titties and you don't (forget implants) and he may have a desire to expeirence them but still loves you...let him have her with them, after all he loves your big butt, or your beautiful face. So what you like to cook and clean and he wants a career minded intellectual woman, he will love those meals you prepare for his nourishment and the seeds that you give and care for as much as he loves the savy businesswoman that your cowife is. She loves you for the care you give her children and the fact that she didn't have to give up her career to have them. And you love her for the fact that you don't have to leave everyday and be on somebody's clock to bring home a paycheck. See where I'm going with this?

Love his honesty if you really want him, guide him in your desire to be his Queen encourage him to study with you: METU NETER VOL 1 & 2, AN AFROCENTRIC GUIDE TO A SPIRITUAL UNION, & THE TREE OF LIFE MEDITATION SYSTEM all by Ra Un Nefer Amen, and you study SACRED WOMAN: A GUIDE TO HEALING THE FEMININE BODY MIND AND SPIRIT by Queen Afua, learn how to have a sister circle and to love selflessly and let go of jealousy, insecurities and fear. The both of you study Mantak and Maneewan Chia's : HEALING LOVE THROUGH THE TAO: CULTIVATING MALE/FEMALE SEXUAL ENERGY. Practice Divine Sacred Lovemaking so that he does not exhaust his life force by ejaculating each time he has sex, this will age him quickly: Study together, The Tao of Health Sex and Longevity by Daniel P. Reid.

A message to the bruthas. Dont abuse this priveledge when a woman gives it to you . Yes, there are rules to this, it is not a ticket to an open sex fest/orgy. You must allow your Queen to choose the Co-wives based on their relationship together and the needs of the househould. It is imperitive that they get along and be friends and sisters. You must not be driven by ego to pit them against each other or see them fight over you. You must not think with your animal nature and must elevate to your GOD self in order for this to work. You must treat them evenly and fairly and not show favoritism, but an equal appreciation for all of your women's talents and skills. The elders teach the youngsters and never never ever let a Co wife come between you and your first Queen, the one who is granting you this gift of paradise! You cannot think with your dick and expect this to be a harmonic situation. Leave it in her hands and you will be free to create for yourself all the dreams you have ever wanted in terms of your success and status in this world. Build an Empire with your talents and those of your Wives and children. Be like Hugh Heffner up in this camp!